Please, Stop Interrupting Me!

Please, Stop Interrupting Me!

Posted on October 3, 2022 at 3:36 am

When you first started dating, do you remember when you loved listening to your husband’s ideas, perspectives, and everything he knew? But now that you’re married, you’ve noticed that you don’t have much airtime when you’re both talking.    When you’re […]

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I Get Mad at My Dog Instead of My Partner 😞

Posted on November 16, 2021 at 9:37 pm

Is this familiar?  You painfully took your anger out on your dog because your partner pissed you off. You’re angry with your partner, but you’re not telling him that you’re mad. You sincerely believe it’s not safe to say that […]

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3-Day Workshop, 4/30/21 – 5/2/21, “From Anger to Creating Peace, Freedom & Healing”

Posted on March 26, 2021 at 11:13 pm

THIS IS NOT ANGER “MANAGEMENT.” THIS IS ABOUT DEEP INTROSPECTIVE WORK TO HEAL YOUR HEART, MIND, BODY & SOUL. THIS IS ANGER TRANSFORMATION.  About this Event Register here through Eventbrite You’ve gone to great lengths to tame, minimize, control, suppress, […]

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Sat, 1/23, $125 Zoom Workshop – An Emotional Algorithm to Process Anger

Posted on January 14, 2021 at 8:25 pm

THIS IS NOT AN ANGER MANAGEMENT WORKSHOP. IT’S ABOUT RELATING TO ANGER IN A NEW WAY. IT’S ABOUT CONSCIOUS & HEALTHY ANGRY EXPRESSION.  IT’S ABOUT NO LONGER SUPPRESSING ANGER. IT’S ABOUT THE FULL EXPRESSION OF ANGER. IT’S ABOUT UNCOVERING THE […]

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It’s Scarce and More Precious than Gold…

Posted on October 15, 2020 at 6:27 am

It’s limited and scarce. It’s more precious and valuable than gold… Your time. How are you spending your days right now? Are you busy Doing?  Are you Doing so much that you have neither time nor space for yourself? If […]

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Zen & Anger Workshop :) Sunday, 9/27/20

Posted on September 16, 2020 at 8:24 pm

I’m collaborating with the San Francisco Zen Center, co-facilitating a 4-hour online workshop with Siobhan Cassidy. 💜💜💜  “The Transformative Purpose of Anger: Deconstructing Strong Emotions from a Zen Perspective” Sunday, 27 September 2020 10 am – 2 pm PST$100-$70 For registration and more information, click here […]

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Anger Training, $300, 9/14/20-11/20/20

Posted on August 25, 2020 at 6:44 pm

Join Vanessa Alfaro – The Empowered Communicator for her 3-month live zoom-training beginning Monday,14 September – 20 November 2020. Cost is $300.   Register through Eventbrite. My 3-month live zoom-training, “From Anger to Creating Peace, Freedom, and Healing in Your Life,” is for those […]

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Anger Training, $300, 9/14/20-11/20/20

Posted on August 20, 2020 at 11:25 pm

Join Vanessa Alfaro – The Empowered Communicator for her 3-month live zoom-training beginning Monday,14 September – 20 November 2020. Cost is $300.   Register through Eventbrite. My 3-month live zoom-training, “From Anger to Creating Peace, Freedom, and Healing in Your Life,” is for those […]

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